July 9, 2012
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Serial Cheaters
"He and I used to be serial cheaters before we found each other."
Cellar door. I never thought of that combination of words together. I have heard of people that cheat, but never a serial cheater. I think people cheat sometimes, because they make mistakes, which is hardly an excuse, and because they do not know that they person they are with is the one they want to ultimately be with. They have this doubt, so they kind of explore other options while holding on to their significant other. I understand cheating is selfish and I am not one to condone it or hate it, but it does amaze me to be a serial cheater.
You would think you would know by a certain degree after a while. You think after being with maybe a handful of other people in different settings you would know if the one you are with is it or not.
I have a friend that values people that have the ability to self-actualize. The process of understanding ourselves is what allows us to move forward to grow and change in the ways we want to. We prune the parts of ourselves we don't like to allow more time and nutrients to other parts of our lives we want to develop.
I do not say I know, but I am very intrigued. She has changed it seems and he has changed it seems has well. Once a lover always a lover in my book. I have always said that we are always striving to push forward but sometimes even when we try our best, it may not look like we are moving very far or pushing very hard. Its okay to be on repeat, until we can make it to the next stage.
Life never gets any easier, we just get better.
Comments (10)
I thought you meant Cereal Cheaters because once I ate Frosted Flakes and I felt I sort of stepped out on Rice Krispies.
@TheTheologiansCafe - I felt the same way when I ate fruity pebbles after a lifetime of cocoa pebbles.
@Thatslifekid - I can't say I blame you. Fruity pebbles are so hot.
perfect. my insides are now out.
do you mean to say that "serial cheaters" has a mysteriously beautiful ring to it the way that "cellar door" is praised?
@happyobligations - I would not go there but it is a great combination of words
@Manbeast - my ex told me that he was a "serial monogamist" which sounds totally deadly to me, but now that i think about it, it makes sense and i think i am also a serial monogamist.
@happyobligations - monogamist is such an ugly soounding word. so far from cellar door. it sounds ugly and the definition sucks too
@Manbeast - haha regardless, that's what i am!
"The process of understanding ourselves is what allows us to move forward to grow and change in the ways we want to." - I love this.
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