October 24, 2012

  • Sex

    If sex is suppose to be beautiful and intimate, why our relationships/friendships destroyed in the aftermath of attempting to be full on lovers?

    When sex is not in play, why is it easier to remain friends?

    What is it about sex that sometimes makes us devalue the other person once we get it?

    Or was the whole friendship a ruse from the start just to be in this situation with another soul and once achieved, there is nothing left?

    Are we not more beautiful than this?

Comments (12)

  • I couldn't agree more!

  • Sex makes people crazy, that's why.

  • Sex isn't everything,..but it does help when you can connect on that level as well. You can't sustain a good relationship without it..but also with it alone. If you're not physically or sexually attracted to someone, then there's most likely no passion there; and without passion, the relationship may fizzle out. On the other hand, if your relationship is primarily based on just sex alone, that would leave you feeling like an empty shell. I think when you can truly connect with someone on all aspects--physically, mentally, and spiritually--then it's truly a beautiful thing (perhaps some may say, soulmates?)

  • I like sex.

  •    Sex drives you out of an evolutionary biological imperative.  It doesnt feel good for your pleasure; it feels good so you will reproduce.  It has nothing to do with making you happy but will make you miserable.  And your feelings for someone have nothing to do with their character or your opinion of them.  And if your post-coital feelings for your partner are soured it doesnt matter because you've already made your genetic contribution and are finished with them until next time.

       And we would all be happier if we reproduced asexually, i think.  But we dont. 

  • Sex can be interpreted in different view points. For me, sex is being intimate with someone in another level. It's seeing someone's inner and outer beauty. 

  • I don't know...  I just know that sex makes me sleepy - and that's why I abstain from it.  Who has time to sleep?!

  • honestly I don't particularly think it's 'sex' that ruins friendships/relationships.. I think what ruins it is the fact that we felt that we've let the other person get super close to us... given them something that special and intimate that only a few others have experienced with us.. and usually there's some sort of a fall out/they did something to hurt you which ruins the relationship.. the actual act of sex is not what ruined it.. I dunno I think I would still be able to be friends with the guys I slept with as long as they didn't do things to make me feel some sort of betrayal on our friendship.....if everything was mature, respectful all throughout ...... (?) 

  • Sex being all romantic and whatnot is something Hollywood tries to tell us. Watch a porn and you see the different side. *haha*

  • My relationship hasn't been destroyed because of sex. Heck, it's even better because of sex. My husband and I are full on lovers.  I didn't have sex until I was married so I still look at it as a pure imitate act. I don't really think it's easier to remain friends even if you're not having sex. Like some of the other people said, I don't think relationships are ruined due to sex or lack of sex. It is always something more.

  • i am  FIRM believer in having sex ONLY with someone you're in a relationship with. That helps

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