I disagree that you can't lose a girl chasing money. I've often thought about leaving when he seems to be putting his career before me. Whenever I feel I'm not as important as his job. I love him but when he doesn't have time for me I wonder what all the material things are really worth. though yeah, I try to understand life is difficult and try to be understanding but I'm pretty certain I am not the only woman who struggles with these thoughts

Then again this is advice for your friends, lol just felt like that spoke to me So just leaving my thoughts.